#56 The Sirians - A Spiritual Exploration of Challenging Relationships - Light Language Archetype for Effortless Movement Along the Divine Life Path

The blog posts on an example of a Soul lesson, the spiritual meaning of soulmates and on karma and soulmates are useful pre-crusors to this material.

We think you will also enjoy reading the blog-posts on Karmic and Soul contracts part 1, Karmic and Soul contracts part 2  and on the Higher Self and the Oversoul.

If you would like to know more about Light Language we recommend the introductory blog post by The Sirians and the more in-depth blog-post on Light Language by Archangel Michael.

We are here; we are The Sirians. This I-S-TAR speaking, I am the spokesperson of The Sirians. There are seven of us here, five Light beings from the sixth dimensional plane, one fifth dimensional being who is about to ascend and an aspect of the eleventh dimensional Sirian High Council. We all align with planet I-A-EE around Sirius A. We are here to provide this transmission to you, dear Readers, via our dear channel who is the only verbal channel on Earth that we are connected to at this point. We give small pieces of guidance and information to other beings on the Earth-plane if and when required, and we also act as the Guides of other beings with a Sirian soul connection like our channel, but she is indeed our only verbal channel or channel of any other modality currently.

Today we will continue with the transmissions we have been providing you on Higher Selves, past lives, soulmates and so on. We realise our last transmission on the topic of soulmates might have triggered several of you in opposing directions. For example, some of you might have enjoyed the concept that you might have different kinds of soulmates not only related to romantic love as you call it, we prefer to call it intimacy, for you can feel love for many people but of course intimacy is reserved for a select few. Some of you might have been extremely elated to have read the information we have provided you. In any case, we see how that prior transmission can be polarising, so we want to take the opportunity in this transmission to further elaborate on the topic of your relationships and try to alleviate your need, as Earth humans now existing in the fourth dimension, to assign labels and stereotypes.

Labels are very convenient for they keep you own awareness a very clear distance from you and your perception and then allow you to conveniently compartmentalise people, situations, experiences in your daily life. This is a very third dimensional way of doing things and we want you to consciously recognise that and say to yourselves – I have now evolved into the fourth dimension, my consciousness is broader, I perceive myself not only as separate from everything outside me but as an intricate part of everything around me and I have a sense of how my energy and my presence and my existence affects whatever comes into my reality.

You, dear Readers, are beginning to understand your connection to your environment and how your very own energetic presence is ultimately what triggers what you perceive. There is no such thing as randomness. Randomness is a theoretical construct of your sciences, and we want to put the emphasis on the word theoretical for there is no such thing in the infinite wisdom of the Multiverse, the Universe and the way you perceive reality. We can broadly describe the various relationships that you have in your life as mirrors or indicators. Chose the word that is easier for your consciousness to process. We know in our previous transmissions that we have explained in detail the amount of preparation and agreements that take place before you arrive here on the Earth plane as an Earth human but that does not necessarily mean that no other experiences are going to unfold. Of course they will.  Earth is a free will planet. That is the setup of planet Earth and although you absolutely have to try your best to honour your divine life path and the milestones you have set up there, everything else in between is a blank page for you. And in every given moment and every tiny second of your time you will perceive something that is the result of your dominant vibration.

We want to put the emphasis on the word result for the vibration, any vibration, can have two effects. One, it can attract the exact match to its frequency or two, because of its nature it will attract something that is blocking the appearance of the exact match of the frequency so that it can be recognised and purged. This means, if you start vibrating at a higher rate before you see the manifestations that match the highest rate first you have to see anything that is blocking the manifestation so all the lower stuff will rise up from the dust so you can see them, acknowledge them so then they will dissipate and then slowly, as the dust settles so to speak, the manifestations appropriate to your vibration will start appearing and solidifying in your dimensional plane.

We would very much like to give you a visual representation of this. Imagine an electric fan, when the fan starts spinning at a faster rate, the wind coming out of its plates will give rise to dust and all sorts of particles and small objects that need to be cleared. This is how vibration works. See yourself as a vortex of energy, see yourself as a mini hurricane. The faster you spin, the higher the frequency, the higher your vibration. We also want to explain the following to you. If you vibrate at a higher frequency or density, meaning your consciousness operates at a higher dimensional level, you will still be able to perceive incidents around you that do not necessarily match this level of your resonance. However, even though you can perceive them, these events will not be immediately impacting you, but they just might come to your perception and again that has to do with the clearing but also with the higher vantage point that you have.

We are giving you this background to enable you to understand the nature of the relationships that unfold every day from the “random” stranger you meet on your way to work or the interactions you have when you go to the marketplace to buy your daily essentials, to your beloved life partner or your challenging coworker or your challenging family member. None of these relationships are random, absolutely none of them. A lot of them are karmic but many of them are not. If you are in a situation where you are having a very unpleasant experience as the result of your interaction with another fellow human on the Earth plane instead of engaging with thoughts of vengeance and hatred, ask yourself. Why am I so challenged by this human? What is it about me that triggers this behaviour? Is this person allowing me to learn a lesson for myself or is this person simply being themselves? Start asking questions to investigate. Question the point of the interaction. Do not engage in vengeance, do not engage in hatred. The more you engage negatively with that person, the harder the experience will become. You do not need to have hard lessons or difficult experiences. Your Guides and Higher Self never want you to suffer from your lessons and experiences. They want you to effortlessly complete them and move on to the next thing. Your lifespans are extremely short even in the context of your time perception. That is why you have such full lives, full of interactions and variety. You all have very busy agendas in your incarnations, very busy agendas. So, no one is here to waste time and miss lessons just because they spent so much negative energy amplifying the already negative experiences they are perceiving from other humans.

When you consciously recognise that you are having a challenging relationship and you try to get to the bottom of it instead of throwing and pumping more negative energy towards the person, you automatically diffuse a lot of the situation because you release your emotional body from the interaction. You ground yourself in your own awareness, you become the observer and by putting yourself in the middle of the question you are putting yourself in the middle of your world which is as it should be. You are simply taking your power back.  Just observe the person, observe the behaviour as you examine it, be your own highest observer that you can be in the moment and take note how your physical body feels around that person.  If your chest tightens, if your throat swells up, if your gut constricts, observe all these physical indicators of discomfort and tell your body: Yes, my dear Body, I realise what is going on, I am conscious of your reaction. You are safe, you can relax. I am safe, I can relax.

Take the time to ask open questions as you conduct your investigations, ask why questions, ponder the facts, be the Higher Dimensional You that you incarnated for and instead of permanently being lost in your ego and pain, at least for a few moments, take the high road as you say. Climb on to the highest point of your consciousness and assess the situation from a more distant neutral place.  No matter how challenging the situation, make the following statement our beloved Readers: I deeply desire for this interaction to lead to the highest outcome for all and for me to learn the highest lesson from this interaction in the most painless and effortless way possible.

Every time you come into contact with this challenging person slowly breathe, put your feet firmly on the ground, put your palms on your lower body area to enhance your grounding abilities and in your head repeat this sentence above that we provided you. If you connect to the unfolding manifestation in front of you in such a calm grounded manner, we promise you will find great relief and empowerment in your own ability to deal with the situation and clarity will begin to appear. We hope this further explanation gave some more context to the most challenging relationships you have because the more you move into the fourth dimensional plane, because of the increased speed of your vibration, you are going to see things right, left, up, down, here, there and everywhere dear Readers! They are simply the results of the spinning of energy so do not pay too much attention, go back into yourself and empower yourself by putting You, your consciousness, your entire beingness into the centre of the experience and take back your control over You.

We are very pleased to be able to give you this empowering message and we sincerely hope you will be able to consciously apply this technique and rip the benefits.

I am I-S-TAR, we are The Sirians, love and light to you All!

If you enjoyed reading this blog post, please click on the little heart button ❤︎ at the bottom right-hand corner. It helps us greatly knowing which topics resonate with you and it also helps this free material reach more people via the search engines.